Romans 16:1-2 Phebe

 Romans 16:1-2
I commend unto you Phebe our sister, which is a servant of the church which is at Cenchrea: That ye receive her in the Lord, as becometh saints, and that ye assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you: for she hath been a succourer of many, and of myself also.

Phebe: "shining; pure"
Paul said some things about this behind the scenes lady..he commended her for her service to the church. Commend means to represent as worthy of notice, regard, or kindness; to speak in favor of. Paul thought highly of her and thought she was worthy of notice. She'd been faithful through the years and it hadn't gone unnoticed. Even today she is being spoken highly of in God's word. Just 2 verses, but forever settled in Heaven.. Phebe was a special lady.  Paul said a few things about her:
1. She was a sister
-She was saved and part of the family of God.
2. She was a servant
-She desired more than just salvation. She wanted a walk with the Lord that pleased him. He is pleased when we have a servants heart. She desired to serve however she could. That word servant means, deacon, waiter, assistant. She assisted (One who aids, or who contributes strength or other means to further another.) many and Paul wanted to make sure the church assisted her as well.
3. She was a "succourer"
-aka a patroness: a female that favors, or supports. Not only did she serve others but she also supported others. She was genuine in her actions. Love was her drive..not self gain or to climb the ladder of success.
-Am I one who gives favor to others? Am I supportive or do I only expect others to give favor to me and be supportive of me?
-To Succor means to run to, or run to support; to help or relieve when in difficulty, want or distress; to assist and deliver from suffering. She ran to the suffering, the hurting, the sick..reaching out to help. We need to run from self centeredness and run to the suffering!

Phebe wasn't concerned with being noticed. She just wanted to be a blessing however she could. She just wanted to support and help everyone God put in her life. Joy=Jesus, Others, Yourself. She knew what Joy was because she devoted her life to not just living for herself but for others through living for the Lord. Her name means shining and that's exactly what she did. She wasn't selfish..But selfless. May I daily strive to be more and more like Phebe and her servant's heart.